Originally published on DatingAdvice The word fetish conjures up images of Christian Grey, ball gags, stilettos, spankings and more. But what exactly is a fetish, and how did it come to be tied up (pun intended) with all of the psycho-sexual hullabaloo? What a fetish used to be: A fetish was a talisman or charm … Continue reading When Should You Reveal Your Fetishes?
Hey there Glitch God thanks for writing. So you are faced with the quandary of either not getting her phone number or getting her phone number and having everyone know. Tough situation. However, this can be a great situation for you to demonstrate how cool and chill you are. It’s the most direct way and … Continue reading Hello! I am a dude and have a kinda specific question. I like this girl, but unfortunately I forgot to get her phone number at the end of the school year. The only person I know who has her phone number is my friend across the street, but I know that he will tell everyone that I know that I like her, even if I am just asking for her phone number. What do I do? – Glitch God
Dear Wendy, Well first off, I am glad to hear that you guys are getting along. And then you hear something confusing and odd like, “You will kick me to the curb.” In its simplest form, he thinks he got lucky getting you. He is worried that one day, you are going to realize you … Continue reading I am dating a 60 yr old bachelor, we get along fantastic… but he always says, quote “You will kick me to the curb.” I asked why he says that and his answer was he is a realist. So what is he really saying? -Wendy
Originally published on DiamondEnvy In 2009, like many people, I found myself underemployed. I had been there before. After all, I was a former actor and ALL actors have been underemployed! The problem was that I was dating this totally awesome girl and I was totally in love! That doesn’t sound so bad, but as … Continue reading Help! My Lady Fell In Love With A Ring I Can’t Afford
Originally published on DatingAdvice There’s a lot of advice out there for hetero dating and much more now on gay dating, but the bisexual world doesn’t get enough ink. This is unfortunate because it can be one of the most confusing areas to be in. Not only that, but many times instead of being accepted … Continue reading If I Try It, Does It Make Me Bi?
Originally published on Lavalife Dating is one of the few human experiences that we all share. Even not dating is still part of that experience. In fact, it is arguably the most important thing that there is! We all want to be successful in life, but what is success without someone to share it with? … Continue reading Girl Advice You’ll Wish You Had in High School
Hey Bridge, sorry to hear about this. Unfortunately, you’re going to just have to chalk this one up in the “lose” category. But I want to help you to not make the same mistake again. The internet is a wild and woolly place. Everyone is on guard about being catfished or meeting “worthy” people. The … Continue reading A guy and I was having great conversation via an Internet dating site. then I joked and said I was married. but lately told him I was just picking (joking) and when I finally told him I was laid off he stopped texting and will not answer my calls. What should I do? I want to visit him at work and ask why. should I ? ( cause I don’t know where he lives ) – Bridge
Set small goals. My first goal is to say 2 sentences to a girl/guy. Do that, then you will see how well that goes. You basically can’t fail, so that will engender more trying. Then when that gets easy, raise the bar. Long story short, people think that the worse case scenarios are WAY worse … Continue reading An ongoing theme in dating advice i read online is ‘love yourself first’. What would you say is the best way to build self esteem? – Koffing
Confidence is the sexiest thing in the world! I have seen this over and over and over. You SordidCanary, need to not feel uncomfortable about it. Easier said than done, I know. But your thoughts on the last statement are categorically false, in the nicest way possible. Short, balding, fat, not classically attractive guy marries … Continue reading (College age here) I’m short and a bit chubby. Because of this I find that a lot of times I go into interactions with girls (at least when it’s not a party or something) in a less than confident manner or I am afraid to make forward moves (like asking them on a date and such). What do you say to someone in my position? One other thing, I saw earlier you said that you don’t believe leagues exist, but I sort of believe they do based on the fact that you rarely see extremely attractive women with mediocre or even unattractive men. – SordidCanary
Don’t ask the normal questions. Think about your friends. Does where they are from, what they do or where they went to school affect whether or not you like them? No. What does is what makes them, them. But ask open ended questions with positive answers. “When was the last time your boss praised you? … Continue reading I am going on a blind date in two days… 1) What advice can you give for blind dates? 2) What are Classic mistakes newbies make? – Testbot5000