Originally published on Lavalife What Fear Is, What Fear Does It happens to the best of us. It’s that subconscious reaction that happens when we are in an uncomfortable situation. So, why can’t you seem to kick your dating fears to the curb? Unbeknownst to you, when you feel fear, your entire body changes. Your … Continue reading Kick Your Dating Fears to the Curb →

Originally published on Yahoo! Shine Did your New Year’s Eve involve a Snuggie? Would you rather read a book than go to a party? Do you find yourself observing more often than interacting? If you have answered yes to any of these questions, you may be a shy girl. In a world peppered with Gagas, … Continue reading Do Guys Find Shy Girls Attractive? →

Originally published in h-Mag with the indomitable Jessica Rosero Romance is in the air! Here at hMAG we think there are many possible ways to spend Valentine’s Day. While a romantic dinner for two is typically thought of as the domain of females, we think many Hoboken women would prefer a night out with the … Continue reading Romancing the Mile Square →

Originally published on Betty Confidential Oh boy it’s now here, this time come again. V-day’s approaching and I felt I must pen A note to my guys and to all men at large To help you succeed and be all in charge. Now I know for most men this day does get tough Trying to … Continue reading Ode to Epic Fails of Valentine’s Days Past →

Originally published on Yahoo! Shine The dating world is filled with a myriad of mixed messages, contrary advice and hypocritical double standards. No wonder it can cause so many women to retreat into their safe haven of sweatpants, Merlot and Grey’s Anatomy reruns. It’s daunting out there! If you bat your eyelashes over your shoulder … Continue reading A Real Guy Tells: How To Be Approachable Without Seeming Desperate →

Originally published on Yahoo! Shine My, my, my how time flies! Here we are at the end of another year and another decade. Hopefully this year was better than the last. Or as my favorite toast goes, “May the best of your past be the worst of your future!” As you lovely and glorious ladies … Continue reading A Real Guy Tells: Why Your Date Didn’t Work Out →

Originally published in The Hudson Reporter Last month, Valentine’s Day became something of a working “holiday” for me. I was covering New York Fashion Week before, during, and after V-day. Since I was around designers, models, and some mini-celebs, I decided to do some research on love, dating, and sex, especially considering I was tripping … Continue reading What do Models and Celebs Think About Dating? →

Originally published in The Hudson Reporter Okay guys and gals, Valentine’s Day is over and we can settle back down. There’s no real pressure to find someone until at least it warms up out there. And while we’re always on the lookout for that next potential match, I feel like there’s a bit of a … Continue reading Dating Burnout →

Originally published in The Hudson Reporter All right, guys, Valentine’s Day is coming up. Every year it starts to create stress when you have to start contemplating what to do or get for your lady: “Is our relationship far enough along that I should be getting her a big gift? Are flowers still okay? Does … Continue reading Recipes for a Successful Valentine’s Day →

Originally published in The Hudson Reporter The year is at its end. Are you still single? How different and more prepared are you for meeting and dating than you were last year? How about five years ago? Albert Einstein was once quoted as saying, “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting … Continue reading Dating as a Resolution →